Wellington uses this book and her analogies to tell many interesting anecdotes. What I took away from this is "never pursue a man" which is an age old advice that seems to be thrown out the window these days. Someone needs to explain the difference between chivalry and courtesy to this author - one is acceptable and one is not. Wellington, typically talks from a first-person perspective. The advice is pedestrian and total common-sense, in addition to taking some uninformed swipes at what I perceive to be feminism, although the author doesnt' use that term - instead talking about ho Thanks, NetGalley, for the free copy, but this book just didn't do it for me. It holds silly stories, interesting analogies and strong recommendations for women when it comes to dating men.